You get used to having fur all over your bedsheets and they get washed once a week so fur doesn’t keep building up. And its just fur. Its not anything gross.
They don’t wake me to feed them. They don’t wake me up at all.
I like it when my cats sleep on my bed. One will cuddle with me and the other will lay next to me. We have a routine. They know when I turn off all the lights its bed time and they will run in there and one will roll around and wait for pets and the other will wait for me to lay down so she can crawl under the covers.